P – Puberty, Crushes & Hard Conversations

Dear Penguin,

You probably don’t even remember this, but our first “real” conversation about puberty and sex didn’t start with a serious talk at all. It started when you came bouncing into the kitchen one evening, proudly announcing that you had discovered a new word: “crush.”

You even gave a perfect 30-second reel-style explanation about it, complete with hand gestures and giggles! I still smile remembering that moment.

That little moment opened a door for us … a door to many ongoing conversations. Because here’s what I truly believe, it’s never too early to talk openly about bodies, growing up, feelings, and yes eventually even sex.

Girls need to know about their changes, of course, but boys should know too.
Because kindness, understanding, and respect start with knowledge, not ignorance.

P: Puberty, Crushes & Hard Conversations

Our first “serious” conversation wasn’t exactly smooth. It was a little awkward, a little funny, a little painful (for me!), but it was real. And real is always good enough.

As you grow, your body will keep changing… your voice might crack, you might shoot up taller overnight, you’ll notice hair growing in new places, and sometimes, you might wake up feeling very confused about dreams you had.
And guess what? Every single part of this is normal. Every. Single. Bit.

Sometimes you’ll see kids online looking like mini-adults, flaunting the latest from Sephora or talking about things they barely understand.
You might hear friends joke about “wet dreams,” “muscles,” or “dating.”

It’s okay to be curious.
It’s okay to ask questions.
It’s always okay to come to me… without fear, shame, or embarrassment.

We’re not aiming for one ‘perfect talk’… we’re building a thousand small bridges between us, so that you never have to feel alone when life feels confusing.

When we talk about our bodies, we use the real names because the body deserves respect, not awkwardness.
And when you see your body changing, remember… everyone’s journey is different. Some things might happen early, some might take time.

Growth isn’t a race.

And yes.. feelings will get bigger too. You’ll feel attraction, crushes, heartbreak, embarrassment, pride.
That’s part of growing into a human with a beautiful, messy, beating heart.

Your body is yours. Your feelings are valid. Your questions are welcome. Your journey is your own.

I’m here. Always.

With love,
Maa

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